Bisexual Dating: June 2017

6/28/17

How to Come Out as Bisexual Men

When U come out as bisexual men to women, there is a common situation that some straight women may not believe U. In their view, the Men who claim as bisexual is a transition to be a full blown gay. They often doubt about your words about your bisexuality.They are not sure if u are 100% bi which makes it difficult for bisexual men to come out their bisexuality to women. So I wanna tell u something u should take into concern when u coming out as bisexual men to women.

Tip 1, NEVER MAKING A HUGE DEAL

One thing u should keep into mind is never making a big deal even if it is actually a big deal for your life, When U tell a woman that U are bisexual. For instance, never saying: "I have something very important to tell U that i am actually bisexual". If u did this, they won't believe U. Although there are still some women who may believe U , they may never date with U.

Tip 2, SAY IT CONFIDENTLY
When U come out as bisexual men to women, you should be proud of yourselves and say it confidently. you must never say : I think i may be bisexual/ And i am not sure that i am bisexual. If u say those words, they may not believe u and they may think u are not 100% sure about your bisexuality or you don't figure out your bisexuality. Being bisexual is not a shame thing and never looking it as a deep dark terrible secrets. So just say it confidently even if u are not 100% sure about your bisexuality. One thing u should remember is that u don't need to prove your bisexuality, cause u mere date with them.

Tip 3, DON'T IGNORE THE EXISTENCE OF QUEER WOMEN

Some women who may doubt your bisexuality don't wanna have bisexual dating with U. Some women who generally believe u also don't wanna have a bisexual dating with u. Here still one group of women should never ignore-the queers who believe U and wanna have bisexual dating with u.So u could come out as bisexual to them and try to date with them.

Tip 4, PREPARING TO ANSWER QUESTIONS
Those women may ask u some questions of your bisexuality,when u come out as bisexual men to women, So U should prepare to answer questions when u come out as bisexual men to them. And U should keep in mind that u don't need to prove your bisexuality to them.

6/26/17

Things U Should Notice When Dating With Bisexual

Bisexuals are not offbeats.We are just like everyone else.What make us a little bit different is that we’re attracted to people of our gender and those who are not our gender. There are some false assumptions of our sexuality: We’re“finding a stepping stone for,”promiscuous,sexually greedy,secretly gay and they think we are just living for threesomes,or we can’t be monogamous. Here i want ask though guys: hey men,do u fucking know what bisexual is? if u don't, please shut up and ask wikis.These are examples of hurtful lies that perpetuate bi-phobia and bi-erasure.

Here are some actual false assumptions you should know about bisexuals when u plan to date one.

1.Bisexuals Never Being Satisfied With One Partner

The most harmful false assumptions about bisexuals is that we can never be satisfied with just one partner.Actually if we indeed like u &determined to be with u, we must take it serious.If we give u our words, we will keep it. As bisexuals, we acknowledge people of other genders are attractive.If we’re dating a woman, we must secretly be yearning for a man’s touch and vice-a-versa. As gay men in a certain relationships still acknowledge other men are attractive,it doesn’t mean we’re going to leave you for someone of another gender. If u still doubt my feelings for u, it will be hard for us to go further. You must understand that we still may leave you for someone else because that happens in relationships, but we may never leave you for someone of your gender as well.

2. The Sexuality of Bisexuality Is Contemporary

This may sounds very ridiculous. But there still someone who agree with it. Indeed,Our sexuality doesn’t disappear because we’re in a committed relationship with you.We’re still bi& It’s still a part of who we are and it has nothing to do with you. And it’s significant for us to identify bisexual even if we’ve been exclusively dating for years. It's important to identify as bi because it’s necessary for bi visibility.

3. Showing How Accepting U Are of Bisexual

As bisexual, we always dislike those guys who constantly ask something about our gender. May be,my date is genuinely interested in learning more about bisexuality because s/he hasn’t met/dated anyone bisexual before. what makes me dislike is my date just wants to show how accepting s/he is of bisexuality.I do want to answer any questions you have about bisexuality and clear up any misconceptions. But you don’t need to prove you’re accepting, we will know within the first few minutes if you are accepting of bisexuals. It’s a date. I don’t just want to talk about myself. I want to learn about you too.

6/25/17

Magic Johnson, A Perfect Example of Supportive Parents

Magic Johnson,

A Perfect Example of Supportive Parents

If you are senior fan of Los Angeles Lakers, you may not miss a recent Ellen DeGeneres'afternoon talk show, because the former Lakers point guard and NBA legend Magic Johnson appeared in the show. If you are one of LGBT members and you wish your parents may receipt and respect to your gender, you may not miss the show.

It is the first time that Magic Johnson talked about his son EJ's coming out, and how it's important for parents of queer children to love and be there for their children.

"...I think it’s all about you not trying to decide what your daughter or son should be or what you want them to become. It’s all about loving them no matter who they are or what they decide to do," Johnson told DeGeneres. "When my son came out, I was so happy for him and happy for us as parents. We love him and EJ is amazing."

He continued: "You’ve got to support your child because there’s so many people who will try to discriminate against them, so they need you to support them. If you don’t support them, who will?"

When heard this, tears full of my eye. Although we come out, we are still someone's children. We love our family and we also need our family to support us because admitting our gender and coming out need large quantities of courage. And the support of our parents gives us those courage. I am bi and I am fortune to have such parents. They are my harbor no matter what comment others give on me. With their support I gradually ignore others' strange sights.

HAVING A ROMANTIC BISEXUAL DATING WITH U

Up to now,i have clearly know who i am. I am a certain bi and i am proud of it. I love men; i love women; i love both men and women. I am looking forward to dating with other bisexuals who have the same interests with me. Here i want give u my words!

If u are my love interests and if we have feeling to each other, I'll date you no matter what happened! I’ll date you if you’re overweight. I’ll date you if you’re insecure. I’ll date you if you’re scarred. I’ll date you if you’re considering yourself ugly. I’ll date you if you’re depressed. I’ll date you if you’re different. I’ll date you if you’re strange. I’ll date you if you have acne. I’ll date you. I’d date you no matter what. I'll date you because I think you are the one i am looking for! because all of you,every fucking inch is precious and beautiful. Your personality matters so much more than your body. I don’t care for some imperfections.

I want to having a romantic dating with you.Here are lots of things i want to do with u. We can going to the library because i know you love books.We can watch dumb movies because it's our favorite. We may go to Canada to watch a show because you have said you love the scene of the snowflake flutter. We may walk around a flea market because the common thing means special. We may sing along to cliche songs because we can convey our sentiment trough those songs. We may explore a forest to add some adventure to our lives.We may sleep under the stars because i think it's romantic.

I just want to have a romantic bisexual dating with you!!!!

6/12/17

We Are Missing Guys We Lost in Pulse Shooting

We Are Missing Guys We Lost

in Pulse Shooting

That night should be the happy hour for us. That night we got together to celebrate our encounter. That night was our first dating. But a cruel man came out. He killed at least 50 and injured more than 50 of our compatriots, our family members. Today, one years later, we still fell sorrow about our loss. We still remember U, the important members of our LGBT family. At this moment, we want to tell our 50 guys that we miss u so much & we will never forget U. As members of LGBT family, we will remember our loss meanwhile we will continue our lives because we have no right to squander our life.

We are fortune to still live in the world and we are fortune to watch the NBA Finals. Therefore we should try our best to make differences. We are fortune to avoid that tragedy, But we lost u guys. i want to share a song to my compatriots.

The Great

BY Sia

Uh-oh, running out of breath, but I

Oh, I, I got stamina

Uh-oh, running now, I close my eyes

Well, oh, I got stamina

And uh-oh, I see another mountain to climb

But I, I got stamina

And uh-oh, I need another love to be mine

Cause I, I got stamina

Don't give up; I won't give up

Don't give up, no no no

Don't give up; I won't give up

Don't give up, no no no

I'm free to be the greatest, I'm alive

I'm free to be the greatest here tonight, the greatest

The greatest, the greatest alive

Well, uh-oh, running out of breath, but I

Oh, I, I got stamina

Uh-oh, running now, I close my eyes

But, oh, I got stamina

And oh yeah, running to the waves below

But I, I got stamina

And oh yeah, I'm running and I'm just enough

And uh-oh, I got stamina

Don't give up; I won't give up

Don't give up, no no no

Don't give up; I won't give up

Don't give up, no no no

I'm free to be the greatest, I'm alive

I'm free to be the greatest here tonight, the greatest

The greatest, the greatest alive

Oh-oh, I got stamina

Hey, I am the truth

Hey, I am the wisdom of the fallen; I'm the youth

Hey, I am the greatest; hey, this is the proof

Hey, I work hard, pray hard, pay dues, hey

I transform with pressure; I'm hands-on with effort

I fell twice before; my bounce back was special

Letdowns will get you, and the critics will test you

But the strong will survive; another scar may bless you, ah

Don't give up (no no); I won't give up (no no)

Don't give up, no no no (nah)

Don't give up; I won't give up

Don't give up, no no no

I'm free to be the greatest, I'm alive

I'm free to be the greatest here tonight, the greatest

The greatest, the greatest alive

(Don't give up, don't give up, don't give up, no no no)

The greatest, the greatest alive

(Don't give up, don't give up, don't give up, no no no)

The greatest, the greatest alive

(Don't give up, don't give up, don't give up; I got stamina)

6/11/17

General Misunderstandings of Bisexual

Although as a member of LGBT, Bisexual always suffers some misunderstandings and scoff. U can know nothing about us, u can get away from us, but never look down upon us. We just love the people of same gender and opposite gender, but we are truly love each other. If u can give your reverence to lesbian and guy, why not give it to us and we are plumb deserve it. Here my article aims to point out some misunderstandings of bisexual. And hope u guys understand our community.

Point 1 BISEXUALS DO EXIST

I don't understand why some people doubt the existence of bisexual. We just be here and nothing can change it. When u deny the existence of bisexual, u deny the existence of amphibian because u have already picked a side. So u should have an objective view about us. We are a certain group in the world.

Point 2 BISEXUALS ARE SEXUALLY GREEDY
This is the greatest misunderstanding of Bisexual. We are not merely looking for the spice of sex. We are totally different from threesome. Indeed, we get together because of the pure affection. We love our men and we also love our women.

Point 3 BISEXUALS ARE SCARED OF COMMITMENT

This is totally a fallacy. When we dare to commit that we are bi, we determine to face all the challenges that added by our families and friend. Therefore we prep to overcome all the difficulties. How can u doubt if i would give up my promise.
Point 4 BISEXUALS ARE A SMALL COMMUNITY
In 2007, a survey of 768 self-identified lesbians, gays and bisexuals found that a full 48.9 percent identified as bisexual — nearly half. Like it or not, bisexual people are here, and they're here to stay. We are not the minority.

6/9/17

Being Proud of Bisexual

There is nothing dirty or taboo about LGBT community.There is nothing unholy or impure about bisexual. We are about love and finding our identity. Just as what Andy Murray said about the Court's comment, "I don't see why anyone has a problem with people who love each other getting married". Love is an excellent thing of one's life no matter what kind of love it is. So being proud of bisexual, we are not gay or lesbian, and not half gay and half straight-we are just bisexual.

We should always know that finding someone and falling in love doesn't mean we've picked a side. We should know that being bi doesn't mean we will always be on the brink of being tempted by someone of a different gender, even when we are in love. We should know that no more likely to be unfaithful than anybody else. We should know that we are important, and valued, and deserve to be happy. So just being proud of being a bisexual.

As bisexual single, bisexual couple or bisexual curious, we also deserve to find a right person to date and love. we are also worth getting a romantic dating and finding our destiny .

Fortunately, I have find my woman and man. So hope u guys find yours too. I think bidatingromance.net may give u some help. bidatingromance.net as the best and largest world bisexual dating site focuses on giving every bisexual single, bisexual couple and bisexual curious a platform to find a perfect match and go through a wonderful dating.

In a word Being a bisexual man or woman is not a shameful thing. It's unnecessary to worry about others comment. Be proud and find your destiny!!!

6/8/17

How to figure out your sexuality identity if you are bisexual

How to Figure Out Your Sexuality Identity

If You Are Bisexuality

Here is a definition of bisexuality on Wikipedia that bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or sexual behavior toward both males and females, or romantic or sexual attraction to people of any sex or gender identity. But do u really figure out the identity of your own sexuality? Here I would like to share some experience for u.

It also takes a long time for me to figure out my sexuality. During that time I confused, worried and felt isolated. But eventually I find who I am and find my man and woman. Yes of course I am a bi and I proud of being a bi. Therefore here are some tips I want to give to people who are now confusing about bisexuality.

Tip 1 DON’T WORRY, YOU ARE NOT BETRAY THE RELATIONSHIP

If u has a relationship with man, but also attracted by both men and women, you’re probably a bi.

If u has a relationship with woman, but also attracted by both men and women, you’re probably a bi.

If u just admire both men and women, you’re probably a bi.

Tip 2 DON'T AFRAID, IF YOU FELL LITTLE DESIRE OF GUY OR LESBIAN

If you’re getting freaky with yourself in your bedroom and the thought or imagined scenario of you with the same gender makes your vagina or penis feel the same way as it does with the opposite gender. Then let’s face it: u could be bi. If you watch a stack of porn of lesbian or gay and get turned on, you're interested in other aspects of sex, rather than the idea of two men or women together. Then let’s face it, u could be bi.

Tip 3 MAY BE YOU JUST A BISEXUAL CURIOUS

if u see a hot member of opposite gender and u want have a wonderful sexy with him/her & if u see a hot member of the same gender, u want to mash your face against him/her. Of course you are bi.

if you attracted by a hot member of the same gender, you fell confusing more than anything. U might be bisexual curious.

All of these tips just my own advice. It is you that can get to define your

sexuality for yourself.

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