Things U Should Notice When Dating With Bisexual

By: michellekalantan on June 26, 2017

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 Things U Should Notice When Dating With Bisexual

Bisexuals are not offbeats.We are just like everyone else.What make us a little bit different is that we’re attracted to people of our gender and those who are not our gender. There are some false assumptions of our sexuality: We’re“finding a stepping stone for,”promiscuous,sexually greedy,secretly gay and they think we are just living for threesomes,or we can’t be monogamous. Here i want ask though guys: hey men,do u fucking know what bisexual is? if u don't, please shut up and ask wikis.These are examples of hurtful lies that perpetuate bi-phobia and bi-erasure.

Here are some actual false assumptions you should know about bisexuals when u plan to date one.

1.Bisexuals Never Being Satisfied With One Partner 

The most harmful false assumptions about bisexuals is that we can never be satisfied with just one partner.Actually if we indeed like u &determined to be with u, we must take it serious.If we give u our words, we will keep it. As bisexuals, we acknowledge people of other genders are attractive.If we’re dating a woman, we must secretly be yearning for a man’s touch and vice-a-versa. As gay men in a certain relationships still acknowledge other men are attractive,it doesn’t mean we’re going to leave you for someone of another gender. If u still doubt my feelings for u, it will be hard for us to go further. You must understand that we still may leave you for someone else because that happens in relationships, but we may never leave you for someone of your gender as well. 

2. The Sexuality of Bisexuality Is Contemporary

This may sounds very ridiculous. But there still someone who agree with it. Indeed,Our sexuality doesn’t disappear because we’re in a committed relationship with you.We’re still bi& It’s still a part of who we are and it has nothing to do with you. And it’s  significant for us to identify bisexual even if we’ve been exclusively dating for years. It's important to  identify as bi because it’s necessary for bi visibility.

3. Showing How  Accepting U Are of Bisexual

As bisexual, we always dislike those guys who constantly ask something about our gender. May be,my date is genuinely interested in learning more about bisexuality because s/he hasn’t met/dated anyone bisexual before. what makes me dislike is  my date just wants to show how accepting s/he is of bisexuality.I do want to answer any questions you have about bisexuality and clear up any misconceptions. But you don’t need to prove you’re accepting, we will know within the first few minutes if you are accepting of bisexuals. It’s a date. I don’t just want to talk about myself. I want to learn about you too.