8 Awkward Situations of Bisexual Women
When u coming out as bisexual woman to you related friend and family, they may understand your situation and get to know more about your sexuality identity. However this situation never happens for people around u. what the most likely to do is doubt your sexuality and give an blank stare. U may meet some Awkward situation of coming out as bisexual woman to public.
1. When U get called a “college lesbian.”
Although u have been coming out as bisexual woman, some people still doubt of your sexuality identity.There are some fallacies among those people. They always think that if u are date with man u must straight & if u hook up with girl u are certain lesbian. They never admit the existence of bisexual. So when they thin u are straight, but also find u have relationship with woman, they generally calls you "college lesbian" which is a false assumption of bisexual! of course we love woman& we love man and when we say those word we mean it. It's doesn't mean we are playboys.
2. When every guy on every dating site ever asks for a threesome dating.
When coming out as bisexual women and joining some bisexual dating site, an awkward situation is that some guys would constantly ask u if u wanna do threesome dating. We do love man & woman, but never means we are seeking for threesome. It doesn't mean we are date with man & woman at the same time.
3.When lesbians say they won’t date you because you’ve been with men.
There do exist small groups of lesbian who dislike straight people & never date with straight people. Therefore they may have a fallacy of Bisexual. They even know little about our community. So if lesbians say they won't date with u, u can find way to let them know more about u instead of just simply treating u as straight.
4. Being Considered A Cheater Because of Your Preference For Both Men And Women.
People who has little sense of bisexual may consider u as a cheater when they find your preference for both men & women. This is another awkward situation when u coming out as bisexual women. We may try our best to explain our sexuality & told them that just loving both man & woman doesn't mean we cheat our partner. If we keep a certain relationship with someone, we mean it and we will never betray our company for other people.
5. Being told to "pick a side" by people who tell you they are
"confused" about your sexuality.
If a your date know you are bisexual woman, they still wanna u to pick a site excusing of they are confusing about your sexuality. At this moment, the best way to solve this situation is to break up
with her/him.
6. Having To Remind People That You’re Bi Every Time You Have A New Partner.
Even if u come out as bisexual woman, people always forget this. So when they see that u are dating with woman but your ex are man. They will look your partner in a blank eye. And u should always remind them that u are bi which is very dull but u must do it.
7.When you and your boyfriend check out hot girls together.
Another awkward situation is that u and your boyfriend check out hot girls together. U may feel jealous when u saw your boy friend seeking photos of other hot girls while u may also wanna seeking photos of other hot girls!! This is one thing that only bisexual people could understand.
8. When You Get Asked If You’re A “Non Practicing”Bisexual.
When u coming out as bisexual women and find a match on online dating site, some people would ask u if u are non practicing bisexual that your coming out just aims to satisfy your sex desire. When meeting this awkward situation we should certainly give them a objection. We should show our attitude that we are never pretend as bisexual women to get a satisfaction to our desire.
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