3 TIPS TO EXPRESSING YOUR SUPPORT TO YOUR BISEXUAL FRIENDS

By: michellekalantan on July 26, 2017

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 3 TIPS TO EXPRESSING YOUR SUPPORT

 TO YOUR BISEXUAL FRIENDS  

Tip 1 Watch and read

The best way to support your bisexual women or bisexual men friends is to understand their bisexual identity. Therefore you may learn more about bisexual by watch some great bisexual films or read some great bisexual articles.

Although there are a few films of bisexuals, among those films, there are still some excellent bisexual films which we'll happily curl up and check out with you. For instance, The Vicky Cristina Barcelona,  a 2008 romantic comedy-drama film of bisexuals written and directed by Woody Allen. The plot focus on two American bisexual women, Vicky (Rebecca Hall) and Cristina (Scarlet Johansson), who spend a summer in Barcelona where they meet an artist, Juan Antonio (Javier Bardem), attracted to both of them. However he still enamored of his mentally and emotionally unstable ex-wife María Elena (Penélope Cruz). The film is a great one of bisexual theme. Meanwhile here are some rad books we'll gladly lend you. They are in turn romantic, heartwarming, messy, tragic and everything in between - just like their straight and gay counterparts. I wanna recommend Shiri Eisner's Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution, depicted a terrible situation of bisexuals as they depicted as duplicitous, traitorous, and promiscuous. It mentioned that bisexuality has long been suspected, marginalized, and rejected by both straight and gay communities alike.

Tip 2 U Can Ask Us Questions Though.

It's OK to ask bisexual women or bisexual men things, however dumb they might seem (unless it's "Which do you prefer?" 200 times, of course ). We'd rather you did that than sat and stewed on a big pile of fallacies and let them sabotage the relationship. If you want to ask us  what it feels like when have sex with men and women,go ahead (we'll only laugh a little bit, honest). If you wanna ask how long do i take to figure out my bisexual identity, go ahead! 

Tip 3 Trust us

Bisexual does not automatically equal to huge risk of clandestine affair with a man. We can live without a man. It's amazing, but we can. Right now you are enough for us and we are in a certain relationship, please believe us when we say it. If you want to step into the bedroom so you can double-check, we're up for that. Bisexuality does not mean reducing people to their gender identities and requiring a taste of everything. It just means the gender of an individual is less of an issue for us than it is for you.